A dog that will only walk with one person usually has a stronger bond with that person, feels safer with them, or has learned that walks with them are more pleasant: gentler leash handling, more patience, and better treats. The good news is that other family members can change this by joining those walks first, taking over the leash gradually, and making their own walks fun and rewarding.
Is your dog likely to flee when you take hold of the leash? Perhaps he doesn’t accompany you when you go for a stroll. Instead, he walks with another person. This article will explain 5 reasons why your dog prefers one individual over another, and what you can do about it.
They have a strong bond with that person
If you’ve noticed that your dog is particularly attached to one person, it’s likely because they have a strong bond with them. This person is probably the one who spends the most time with your dog and has formed a close relationship with them. Dogs are very social creatures, and they crave attention and companionship. When they form a bond with someone, it’s because that person has given them the time and attention they need.
If you want your dog to be equally attached to you, make sure to spend quality time with them on a daily basis. Give them plenty of love and attention, and take them on walks or play games together. Soon enough, you’ll form an unbreakable bond with your furry friend. This kind of favoritism shows up in other ways too, as we explain in my dog is obsessed with my husband.
They feel comfortable with that person
Dogs are creatures of habit and they tend to feel most comfortable when they stick to their usual routine. That means that if they’ve been walking with the same person for a while, they’re going to want to keep doing it. It’s not that they don’t like other people, it’s just that they feel more comfortable with someone they know. Additionally, dogs are very intuitive creatures and they can sense when someone is feeling anxious or stressed.
If the person they’re walking with is calm and relaxed, they’re more likely to be as well. So next time your dog refuses to walk with anyone but you, remember that it’s not personal – they just feel safest when they’re with someone they trust.
The other person might not be as gentle
Dogs are social creatures that enjoy spending time with their human companions. However, many dogs will only walk with one person. The reason for this is that the other person might not be as gentle. Dogs can sense when someone is nervous or afraid, and they may react accordingly. For example, if the other person yanks or pulls on the leash, the dog may resist, put on the brakes, or even become defensive. The opposite can happen as well; see my dog loves everyone except one person.
On the other hand, if the dog feels comfortable and safe with the person, it will be more likely to walk calmly by their side. Therefore, it is important to be gentle and patient when walking a dog, as this will help to create a positive experience for both the dog and the owner. If a younger family member wants to take over walks, read how old you have to be to dog walk.
The person they walk with might have a better treat game
More often than not, the person your dog prefers to walk with is the one who has the best treat game. This could be because they always have treats on hand, or because they’re more generous with their rewards. Either way, your dog has learned that this person is more likely to give them something tasty in exchange for good behavior.
So, if you want your dog to start walking with you, make sure you’ve got some delicious treats at the ready. With a little patience and perseverance, you’ll be able to win your dog over in no time.
They appreciate the patience of the other person
One common reason your dog will only walk with one person is that that person is more patient. Dogs can be fickle creatures, and they often respond well to people who are willing to take the time to earn their trust. If you’re the only person in the household who’s willing to put in the extra effort, it’s likely that your dog will see you as the person he trusts most. (This has nothing to do with being the “alpha”; modern research doesn’t support the idea that dogs see their families as a dominance hierarchy.)
In addition, dogs tend to prefer people who share their energy level. If you’re calm and relaxed, your dog will likely mirror your behavior. On the other hand, if you’re constantly on the go, your dog may find it difficult to keep up with you. By taking the time to find a walking partner who matches your dog’s personality and energy level, you’re more likely to have a four-legged friend who’s happy to hit the pavement with you.
How to get your dog to walk with other people
- Start together. Go on walks as a group with the dog’s favorite person, while the other person holds the leash. Then let the favorite person drop back or head home partway through.
- Keep it short and fun. Begin with short, easy walks on familiar routes, and bring the dog’s favorite treats so the new walker becomes the source of good things.
- Use the same gear and cues. Use the same harness or collar, leash, and words the dog already knows, so the walk feels familiar.
- Be gentle with the leash. Stop and wait or encourage the dog forward with a treat rather than pulling him along.
- Rule out pain or fear. If your dog has started refusing walks in general, or seems stiff, limps, or is reluctant to go out, see your vet. Something scary on the usual route can also make a dog balk, so try a different route.
Key takeaways are:
- Dogs are creatures of habit and they tend to feel most comfortable when they stick to their usual routine
- Dogs can sense when someone is feeling anxious or stressed
- Many dogs will only walk with one person because the other person might not be as gentle
- The person your dog prefers to walk with is the one who has the best treat game
- Dogs often respond well to people who are willing to take the time to earn their trust
